Saturday, February 21, 2009

*mixed emotions*

just found out from mama that lyana(lyana being my 21 year old niece who is turning 22 in July 09') adopted a baby boy. the hospital where her mom goes to to get uhm. medical attention? and stuff (she's diabetic) said there was a baby boy whom the parents left for almost 2 weeks (indonesian mom and bangladeshian dad). and the hospital was about to send him for adoption which is tough on the baby i guess. having to keep changing carers and all. nways. the nurses were trying to persuade lyana's mom at first but since lyana was with the mom at the moment, i guess the baby caught lyana's attention instead. she hid the fact for well, 2 months or so from everyone and finally everyone knew when she visited mama and all the family members were there. walao! i can imagine the aunts and uncle going berzerk!

well, mama as she innocently is thinks it's good for her if she wants to. *or something like that* uhm. ok. pros and cons people. they're in almost every situation! and well, she's already put the baby's name in hers so i guess there's no use in re-inforcing the cons. should be more of solutions we're talking about? uhm. but babies babies babies... they get harder to take care of as they grow old. education. adding another mouth to food where their appetite increases as they grow old. uhm. but mama says she'll take it as it comes along.. just like any other new mother would. i guess we as her family... all we can do is to be supportive.

i REALLY wanna say out the cons but well, yeah. lyana would have to overcome them later on i guess. got a picture of her. she looks happy. and seems to be coping. which is good.



the baby



from what mama tells me, kak mai (lyana's mom) doesnt like the baby. and doesnt even help looks after him and what not. i think that's not fair. shouldn't she be supportive? i mean, even tsara (kak mai's adopted daughter) was helped taken care of by lyana. *sigh*


wish u all the luck and strength lyana. u'll need it. but i am in a way, happy for u. i know what it's like to take care of a baby(2 actually. haha). the joy they give you. seeing them grow up. especially if it's your own (not a sister. lol). just hope i wont eat my words if things starts to go downhill. get a stable job. thats the best thing for now that u can do, i think. you can't afford to lose ur source of income. god bless

kawa Boo! blogged at 11:24 am