Friday, January 01, 2010

O.M.G! my 22 year old niece is married (has been for quite awhile) and her "adopted" son is actually her REAL son. so many assumptions playing around in my head... honestly though, poor girl. i cant imagine how it must have been for her to keep up with the secrets all these while...

giving birth. and marriage. these are 2 things i would think is something best shared with family. and being unable to, or rather afraid to, is just so. sad. but now that the truth is out. nothing but good things should come out of this. or wouldnt it?

i know many people were hurt from this. and some not so. well, different people with different feelings towards her with different expectations have different reactions to such... lies. some may feel betrayed by her, some may feel pity for her, some may even be happy for her and some may just feel overwhelmed and shocked as i am.

with luck, the small family reception at the end of the month will bring the family together and allow everyone to adjust to the idea of what have happened and not dwell too much on the past. things happened. secrets were made. wish they werent. and we might not be happy with how things turned out but it is how it is

looking on the brightside. *hopeful*

kawa Boo! blogged at 2:01 am